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90 questions to ask your partner

These questions come from 30 topics in MaCouple. Use them on a date night, a long drive, or a long-distance call. They work best when both of you think of an answer first, then compare.

In MaCouple, you both answer the same question separately; the two answers reveal together, side by side. Each topic has 10 questions, plus game history and shared memories in the app.

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Family & Roots

3 sample questions

  1. Which family tradition from your childhood would you like to keep alive with me?
  2. Who in your family are you most like, and in what way?
  3. What did you say about me when you first told your family about me?

Family Dynamics

3 sample questions

  1. What boundary matters most to you in the relationship we build with both our families?
  2. If we split holidays between our two families, what arrangement would feel fairest to you?
  3. When our families interfere in something, how would you want me to respond?

Love Language

3 sample questions

  1. When do I make you feel my love most deeply?
  2. What would you like me to tell you more often when I express my love in words?
  3. How could I show you my love at the end of a tiring day in a way that warms your heart?

Childhood Memories

3 sample questions

  1. What was the biggest bit of mischief you got up to as a child that still makes you laugh?
  2. What did you think you would become when you grew up?
  3. If you described your childhood room to me in every detail, what would it look like?

Deep Talk

3 sample questions

  1. Which version of yourself do you feel most able to be when you are with me?
  2. Beyond loving each other, what do you think we bring most into each other’s lives?
  3. What has our relationship taught you about yourself?

Emotional Intelligence

3 sample questions

  1. When you are upset, would you rather I notice it on my own or ask you about it?
  2. When you are struggling, do you need a solution, a hug, or a little space from me?
  3. Which feeling is hardest for you to put into words when you tell me about it?

Home & Life

3 sample questions

  1. What would the little corner you would create just for me in our shared home be like?
  2. Which household task do you think I would definitely be better at?
  3. What small habit of mine could annoy you most quickly if we lived together?

Favorites

3 sample questions

  1. Which meal do you think would cheer me up instantly if you put it in front of me when I am down?
  2. If you planned a perfect weekend for me, how would the day begin?
  3. If you chose a song that describes me best, which one would you play?

Money Mindset

3 sample questions

  1. If we saved money together, what would you want our first shared goal to be?
  2. If we came into a large amount of money, what do you think I would want to do first?
  3. Which of us do you think is more likely to spend, and which to save?

Traces of the Past

3 sample questions

  1. Which event from your past most shapes the way you approach me today?
  2. What do you think is the biggest difference between your former self and who you are today?
  3. Which decision you made in the past are you grateful to yourself for today?

Future Dreams

3 sample questions

  1. What do you most hope will have come true for the two of us three years from now?
  2. If you imagined an ordinary morning for us ten years from now, how would it begin?
  3. What do you think is the most exciting shared dream we could build together?

Daily Life

3 sample questions

  1. What small gesture from me would comfort you most at the end of a busy day?
  2. What kind of message from me during the day would instantly make you smile?
  3. What would be the most enjoyable thing we could make a weekday routine together?

Trust & Support

3 sample questions

  1. What do you trust me with most completely?
  2. On a day when the world feels like too much, how can I make you feel that I am by your side?
  3. When I make a mistake, what is the first thing you need to hear from me?

Which One of Us?

3 sample questions

  1. Which of us would say yes to an unplanned trip more quickly?
  2. Which of us would make the first move to reconcile sooner after an argument?
  3. Which of us plans the other’s birthday better?

Dilemmas

3 sample questions

  1. Travel the world with me or build our dream home?
  2. A new adventure every week or a peaceful home routine every evening?
  3. Relive our first date or see one day from our future?

First Impressions

3 sample questions

  1. What was the first sentence that went through your mind when you first saw me?
  2. What kind of person did you think I was before you talked to me?
  3. How did you describe me to your friends after our first date?

First Spark

3 sample questions

  1. When did you first realize your feelings for me had changed?
  2. What is the sweetest detail you remember from our first messages?
  3. Which moment on our first date excited you the most?

Career & Goals

3 sample questions

  1. How do you picture me by your side when you reach the point you want in your career?
  2. What truly excites you in your professional life?
  3. How could I support you in the most helpful way as you work toward your goals?

Adventure List

3 sample questions

  1. What place would you say we should not leave this life without seeing together?
  2. What would you put at the top of our shared adventure list?
  3. What would you like us to try together for the first time this year?

Gratitude

3 sample questions

  1. In what way do you feel luckiest to have me in your life?
  2. Is there a small thing about me you would like to thank me for today?
  3. Which challenge we overcame together made you feel the value of our relationship more deeply?

What Would You Do?

3 sample questions

  1. If you could read my mind for one day, what would you be curious about first?
  2. If we won a huge prize, what would be the first thing we would do together?
  3. If we could go back to one day in our relationship, which day would you choose?

Pop Culture

3 sample questions

  1. If you compared our relationship to a TV series, which would you choose?
  2. Which movie couple do you think we resemble a little?
  3. Which series would you want to binge with me in one night?

Romantic Moments

3 sample questions

  1. What was the most romantic moment you shared with me?
  2. Which small gesture I made made you happier than you expected?
  3. Which moment of ours would you like to live exactly the same way once more?

Romantic Dreams

3 sample questions

  1. Where would you like to watch a perfect sunset with me?
  2. If we started a romantic tradition to repeat every year, what would we do?
  3. How would you plan your dream surprise weekend for me?

Hot Seat

3 sample questions

  1. What small criticism about me have you hesitated to say?
  2. What are you most stubborn about in our relationship?
  3. Has there been a moment when you felt innocently jealous of me?

Room of Secrets

3 sample questions

  1. What were you most secretly curious about me in the beginning?
  2. Would you share with me an innocent dream you do not tell many people about?
  3. Do you have a secret you kept as a child that makes you laugh now when you tell it?

Appreciation

3 sample questions

  1. Which quality of mine do you admire most?
  2. What is the most beautiful change I have brought into your life?
  3. What action of mine do you remember helping you during a difficult moment?

Travel & Trips

3 sample questions

  1. Which trip we took together would you like to experience again?
  2. If you planned our dream vacation, where would you take me first?
  3. On vacation with me, would you choose the sea, nature, or exploring a city?

Passion & Desire

3 sample questions

  1. If you described the attraction between us in one word, what would it be?
  2. Which small gesture of mine affects you most?
  3. When I touch you, what is the first feeling that awakens inside you?

Growing Old Together

3 sample questions

  1. How do you imagine an ordinary morning for us when we are sixty?
  2. What would you most want us to preserve between us as we grow old together?
  3. What would be the first big plan you would make with me when we retire?

FAQ

What are good questions to ask your partner?

Start light: daily life, first impressions, travel dreams. As the conversation warms up, move to deeper topics such as love languages, trust, and plans for the future.

Do these questions work for long-distance couples?

Yes. In MaCouple, partners can answer from different places and at different times; you get a notification when it is your turn.

Is MaCouple free?

MaCouple is free to download and play. MaCouple Plus unlocks more games, an ad-free experience, and relationship insights.

In MaCouple, you both answer the same question separately; the two answers reveal together, side by side. Each topic has 10 questions, plus game history and shared memories in the app.

Download on the

App Store